Self Heed to Succeed

Life itself huh, it's quite funny how it works. It's that one teacher that would wake up one morning, decide to give you a test, and with no preparation, get you to figure out the lesson behind it.  Nonetheless it’s busy, so busy. We have to take care of ourselves, eat, sleep, move, work, plus friends, relationships, and parents to worry about. There’s just so much going on. So when do we find the time to think of the lesson? Well, at any time we decide to give ourselves to it. How else are we going to learn to avoid the vicious cycle of drama, if it is not the desired outcome? By being present, in the moment and with forward thinking. Avoidance   Countless are the times we felt like saying “This, again?!”. I definitely did, I’m sure you did and I’m sure the universe feels the same when it sees no change of action. But why do we do it? Or even better “why do we do it to our own self?”  Avoidance is the easiest and most hideous way of handling our shit. We’ve become too us...

Ownership is the way to success.  Owning our truths is the process of acknowledgement of all that is, good and bad, right and wrong, love and hate. Overlooked and misunderstood by many, it affects everything in our lives, from our mental state, to the way we socialise and the choices we make.  Probably one of the most powerful tools in our arsenal, that leads to great wins, contented lives, genuine and heartfelt relationships.. We just need to learn to use it, at any time, circumstance and with everyone we interact with. Grasping our power back Life is a challenge, it’s traumatising, it’s unfair, it’s vengeful, it’s uncanny, it’s a lot, but we know it can be, we know there’s so little we can control, then why decide to be negative about it? Why do we feel like things happen to us? That we’re some sort of victim to life and the hurdles that come with it? We all go through trauma, incidents and wrongful doings, so where does our power stand?  Our power stands in how we reac...