What I needed to read then..

Words that were never queued


We spend our early lives in admiration of our parents, our successful aunties and uncles, the celebrities we see on our black hole devices and we never seem to wonder, ”Who am I at core?” “What do I truly want out of life? Not what my parents want from me, not what society wants me to be, but who do I need to be, to be happy?’’


I started pondering on that question later on, when my back was up against the wall, hope sounded like a faraway echo in the midst of an apocalypse and me, a recently awakened zombie, confused as to why I found myself loving brains.


It’s tough being a teenager with emotions running high, surrounded by humans who have not yet come to grasp with their eager inner being, closeted in a dark room forced to witness our copy cat fragile egos.

We get taught how to behave, be pleasant to others, listen to our “superiors” and only speak when you’ve been granted to, but we don’t get educated on the importance of listening to our own voice, our own dreams, let alone our own feelings. 


“Don’t do this”, “Don’t do that”, “No, you can’t do that either” or else…

But forget society and what people say, as they will always have something to comment on...

What about what I want and what I need in my lifetime? 


Why am I not being told how unfair life is, how everyone judges and it’s on me to let it entice or confidently seeing their projections on me; how as long as I’m truly, deeply honest with myself, I will always find true happiness and reciprocation of such; that no matter what others do, I should never fear opening that closet, without need for validation; that it’s okay not to be okay, as long as I take the time to vocalise how I got there, why and what I’m feeling? 


We go as our lives pass by, convinced we’ve been acting from a place of genuineness, when we’ve been unknowingly regurgitating years and years of conditioning and militant vicious cycles of neglect, hindering success in our relationships, mental health and careers.


CONCLUSION 


Therefore, what happens when that door opens, when we let our skeletons and true desires come out in a praiseful manner? 

Well, the world happens. Traumas become a great learning book, that first glass of water, while your feet meet the floor, tastes a little bit sweeter and you jump off eager for what's to come, instead of sluggishly hating having to get out of your comfort to make someone else’s life better.


With this blog, I’ll show you a different way of coming to your realisation, to develop the ability to manifest the people you deserve and most importantly to heed yourself to an unexpected life, wealthy of success stories that‘s going to impact the way you see yourself, the people you come across and how lucky you’ll feel for being alive on this earth. 


I will never promise you easy, because raw, deep, self-assured Happiness, it is everything but effortless and straightforward; but what I do pledge is an undying feeling of gratefulness, contentment and freedom that will allow you to break the chains and fly like a bird through life.
High school dropout, who emigrated from Italy to London in 2019. Spiritual being who confidently made her way to a life of contentment, freedom and individualistic thinking, in an illusive world.

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